I have been soo soo busy lately not just on anything or one thing in particular, but with my son’s birthday and just school in general and now Christmas around the corner and it’s all just zooming by at an alarmingly fast pace.

My middle guy decided that he wanted to have his birthday at home this year!! I was kinda okay with it, and I seemed like it would be cheaper thing to to , but I wasn’t and I will just tell you this it was a stressful endeavor which I really thought would be less stress.  I am not the kind of person to open my home to friends or co workers.. I am very wary of other’s opinions and really would rather just have the kids show up . But of course a few parents stayed . and I do know them well enough to call them friends, but with me I still feel the pressure of OH is my house good enough, clean enough. Most people for some reason when I meet them see me as some kind of charity case. Not sure if it is because i just don’t know how to say NO to people or if my kindness is mistaken for being a fool. but anyway I think these ladies that i call my friends.. just seemed to maybe have much more to talk about now that they have come to the party.

Call me paranoid but when two women go into your personal bedroom , sit upon your bed and then proceed to close the door and chat among  themselves while a party is in progress. all without thinking the least bit about my feeling. Like WHAT THE FUCK. I would never go into there bedrooms or gossip under their noses. I had to literally knock on my own bedroom door to interrupt them from there conversation. If it wasn’t personal they they would have had no reason to close the door let alone leave the party area. Let alone they didn’t even know each other before the party?? go figure. What they f were they talkin about in there!!!

Besides that incident I had my Mom who never knows when enough is enough start talking and I just got this really uptight feelings roaming around my condo. If one of them were my true friend then they would have the decency to tell me right? right! or they were talking about nothing I doubt it !!! I think they were agreeing with each other that’s what I think!!! anyway its Family only from now on !!! no matter how crazy they may be they are real and that’s what I want

But beside all that the kids had a great time I didn’t plan any games I just let them play their Bey-blades and they had fun and they were real!!!!  We gave out prizes to the winners. I even had them make their own pizza’s which at first no one except my family got like MAKE YOUR OWN PIZZA PEOPLE  not that difficult to understand

I used English muffins and toasted them and had all the cool toppings Ham, Pineapple, Pepperoni,mushrooms,cheese, green and red peppers, and only a few kids wanted to eat.. Is it customary to EAT before a party? is this something new I don’t know about?? Do people do this on purpose??? Or to tell you that they time you picked for the party (which i thought was appropriate for 5-6 yr old from 2:00 to 4:00 on a Saturday ) is not they time they would have choose because it was to close to lunch time WTF again?? These people are whack…… sorry to say !!! I got a shit load of goodies stuff for the gift bags we even made each child a iron transfered bey-blade t shirt to take home… as if that impressed anyone!! but i spent a lot of money and effort planning the day. Should I have cared so much about the parents or just enjoyed the fact that my son had a excellent time…Next year MC Donald’s play land you have to please yourself and your kids no one else this is the lesson i learned and no matter People who don’t care won’t give a shit and people who do you don’t give a shit about!! will post the pics soon my chica’s